I used to think being feminine was wearing flowery dresses, being weak and talking about mindless stuff. For many years I was very uncomfortable with women. I hated doing what I thought were "girly things" and growing up I preferred playing sports and hanging out with the boys because they were more fun and practical. There was less drama and no "stabbing behind the back" because boys "just say things as they are" or so I thought. I grew up in a matriarchy and even though I